Thursday, April 29, 2010

What do we know about the word NO? There are 3 important things

1) All the languages have a word which means NO

2) They are a pair of two consecutive alphabets which are continuous in the alphabets series

3) The most important one. NO is not just a word

When do people say NO?

But before that, NOs can be broadly classified into two

1) Others NO to u

2) Your NO to others

NO is a denial, to put it more diplomatically, the inability to say yes.

I am sure everybody reading this would have heard NO atleast once in their life time so far (if not please go back hear some NOs and come). The big question is, does all these NOs hurt us? NO, they don’t… see it dint rite, that’s what I am trying to say.

Ok let’s imagine a few cases where a person would have probably heard NO. Others NO to U

NO FROM A STRANGER:

You are going to a competition, to a new place and you don’t know the proper location OF the venue, you meet a stranger on the road ask him for the direction and he bluntly says NO. Does that hurt u? Not really… now u find a YES saying stranger, find the place and reach the competition venue, u performed your best, u are happy ( even though u already heard a NO). When the results are announced, for the second time u hear a NO, again from a stranger… but does that feel the same... NO.

NO FROM THE CLOSED LOVED ONES… it always hurts… but the question here is FOR HOW LONG?

U go to your dad ask him for an expensive watch… your dad bluntly says NO (blunter than the stranger one), we do feel bad but for how long, till he gets u an equally impressive watch or till he sits down with u, with your favorite ice cream on your hand and he explains to u…

now u wear this impressive watch that your dad bought for u… wear your best clothes… go to your girl/boy and say I AM TRULY MADLY DEEPLY IN LOVE WITH U… and they say I don’t like your watch, NO… shattered to pieces.. Wearing your favorite watch does not matter anymore…

NO happens. Without NO nothing happens…

Coming into YOUR NO TO OTHERS, we should at times be sure about what we want/can and know when to say NO.

Believe me this is very difficult and confusing

A conversation between me and my friend:

Friend: I should probably learn to say NO. It’s high time

Me: ya dude

F: ya? May be u should also learn to say NO cos u jus said YA

M: NO, because … blah blah…

F: hey cool man u jus learned to say NO

M: ok cool… but should I say a YES or NO for this???

ACTUALLY WHEN DO PEOPLE SAY NO????? BIG QUESTION… NO SINGLE ANSWER…

a conclusion for NO?? not possible

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Some CRAZY stuff

Before u start reading further please remind yourself that madness and craziness are different.

In this beautiful world everyone is crazy but only a few have the guts to express it. And this line gets better when you are with your loved ones.

Before getting into all the intricacies, what is craziness?? I know, it is indeed a crazy question.

When, where and why do people behave crazy.

When?? When u are with the people whom you like, to put it in a better way, when people around u, like u for whom you are, and not for what u are, we get crazy…

Where?? Where ever u meet/find people who fall under the above category.

Why?? Because we are humans, cars and tables can’t be crazy. May be a person can be crazy about a car, but the other way, not possible.

It’s awesome to be crazy.
Crazy people look at things differently, crazy people are innovators, crazy people are passionate, crazy people are humorous, crazy people are outstandingly sensible for normal people to understand. But crazy people are not always crazy.

When a crazy person meets another crazy person who is equally crazy, they may not be crazy, but this is never possible. Craziness can’t be treated by docs, because craziness is not a disease, it’s a state of living. A person may be able to express it only for a short period of time. Just because numbers can be added that doesn’t mean that alphabets can also be added, because alphabets are variables and so is craziness.

If u think all this is completely crazy, then congrats, u have got the guts to express it and if u think this is no where close to being crazy, then, come on dude don’t be crazy.